My title pretty much says it all…because Nate and I are not very good at this. And we only have one child!
You could list off endless reasons why you don’t have the time. The money. The energy. But you just have to do it. Even when we met with Pastor Mike before we got married, he mentioned the importance of going on dates. Wise words from a wise man!
So…I decided that it’s time to go on more dates. Starting today!
I telecommute on Thursdays (the absolute best, so productive!), and Nate works from home, so we decided to use my lunch time to pick up some tacos from the take out window at nearby Big Star.
The day was beautiful, my al pastor tacos and horchata were perfect, it wasn’t crowded, and–best of all–we knew Ellie was in good hands.
Good for the stomach, better for the marriage, best for my heart. Xo
This photo showed up in my Facebook memories today:
My sister and me (and EJ, too!). My baby shower at Wildfire two years ago. It feels like just yesterday, but so long ago.
In a way, who I am in that feels like a different person. She looks rested. She’s glowing with excitement for that little baby to come. (I loved being pregnant.) So happy her sis is in town.
Now I’m tired. Like, chronically tired. The barista at Specialty’s on Dearborn knows me well (large iced coffee with extra soy). I haven’t seen sunshine in a long time…
My life may be very different, but it is not bad. At. All. My sister and her family are now a 20-minute drive from my house, not a two-hour flight away. I plan to spend lots of time at the park and the pool and on walks this summer with my little red-haired cutie (read: lots of sunscreen), who will have her second birthday in June.
Motherhood is exhausting. Being a working mom is hard (I think being a stay-at-home mom is even harder!). Being a loving wife is difficult at times. Feeing like a terrible friend is normal. Making time for yourself is non-existent (working on that). Balancing new expenses is challenging. Taking off the baby weight is tough. Making sure the house is clean is impossible (especially when you live with a Tasmanian devil).
But you know what? Wouldn’t change it for the world. I am tougher and smarter and prouder than I’ve ever been. God won’t give me what I can’t handle, and I’ll just keep making lemonade out of lemons. A few extra pounds is a small price to pay for a full heart.